Time for a rethink

February 29, 2020
How many years have people been worshiping various religions?  For all that praying, following, supplicating, donating, asking forgiveness, being subservient, humble, believeing what we pray for will come to pass, what has it wrought? Is any religion for that matter working?  There are still wars, strife, poverty, and no religion is so sublime that we swoon in the presense of their deciples.

With regards to this one point only, what has it done for the women in the world? Accounting for roughly 50% of the population what percentage are still under the thumb of a biased and highly prejudical system or in the working world, glass ceilings.  What about all those women dominated by a bunch of beared jerks ranting about fallacies?  When do we decide to fix the nonsense?

As I have written before, the idea that women are not equal to men and subservient to them has historical precedents.  Many religions perpetuate this view
, which its adherents then situationally enforce in their lives and coerce their children into believing. The article in the link discusses Christianity's role in this process, and the Wikipedia link touches briefly on Islam's complex and occasionally, enlightened view on the subject.Player beats his girlfriend

A patriarchal structure also provides insight into the treatment of women.

No one should ever have to watch a woman beaten to a pulp by a father, step father or boy friend, or belittled to the point their self esteem is destroyed. Nor is it acceptable to witness the same behavior of a sister or daughter in the name of honor or religion.  No parent should ever have to live with the horror of a daughter beaten or traumatized by a husband, boyfriend, or brother and it is even less acceptable for a court to overlook or ignore such behavior.  Consider the effect it also has on their young children.

Rather than discussing historical excuses explaining why women's roles are defined as they are in society, as if anything that can be said or written by anyone, including so called gods or governments, one simply has to decide women being treated as inferior to men is unacceptable.  No edicts by anyone claiming authority on the subject are unchallengeable.

"As long as the world shall last there will be wrongs, and if no man objected and no man rebelled, those wrongs would last forever." - Clarence Darrow

"One has not only a legal but a moral responsibility to obey just laws. Conversely, one has a moral responsibility to disobey unjust laws."
- Martin Luther King

"Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resign his conscience, then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward. It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right." - Henry David Thoreau

"Civil disobedience becomes a sacred duty when the state becomes lawless and corrupt." - Mahatma Gandhi

"If the machine of government is of such a nature that it requires you to be the agent of injustice to another, then, I say, break the law." - Henry David Thoreau

"Public opinion sets bounds to every government, and is the real sovereign in every free one.” - James Madison, Public Opinion, December 19, 1791

“We are at the very beginning of time for the human race. It is not unreasonable that we grapple with problems. But there are tens of thousands of years in the future. Our responsibility is to do what we can, learn what we can, improve the solutions, and pass them on. It is our responsibility to leave the people of the future a free hand. In the impetuous youth of humanity, we can make grave errors that can stunt our growth for a long time. This we will do if we say we have the answers now, so young and ignorant as we are. If we suppress all discussion, all criticism, proclaiming “This is the answer, my friends; man is saved!” we will doom humanity for a long time to the chains of authority, confined to the limits of our present imagination. It has been done so many times before ...

It is our responsibility as scientists, knowing the great progress which comes from a satisfactory philosophy of ignorance, the great progress which is the fruit of freedom of thought, to proclaim the value of this freedom; to teach how doubt is not to be feared but welcomed and discussed; and to demand this freedom as our duty to all coming generations.” - Richard P. Feynman, What Do You Care What Other People Think?

"Women have to risk civil disobedience for their rights." - Sonia Johnson

Visual Representations of the Mistreatment of Women

The first two are from the Mormons, and just is case you thought the Mormons have smartened up, here is the latest move to keep women in their place; Utah Senate committee unanimously approves bill to decriminalize polygamy. Now anyone can collect women like goats or sheep and you no longer have to be a Mormon to do it.
 
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Living in a society in which women are exposed to the symbology of subservience suggests this treatment is acceptable.  How primitive are we that we overlook humans being branded with any symbol evidencing support for a set of beliefs?
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Doing so has a negative impact on all of our daughters' futures. This article offers one view of the impact such treatment has on them.


That is not to say the founders of religious traditions have not provided excellent ideas on morality and ethics, but to assume that their ideas are beyond question dooms us to failure. Men for centuries have been inventing ways to enslave people, not just women, including rewriting the supposed words of gods to create credibility for their behavior. 

The following links to stories and articles illustrate examples of such behavior. The fact that this type of treatment is permitted anywhere in the world with so called democracies continuing to do business with countries in which the mistreatment of women is accepted, just because they buy arms or make investments in the nation, says all you need to know about the values the leaders of democracies hold.  

 
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There is a missing link that has expired in the article linked to the image above.  It is here in the Wayback Machine.
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The picture above illustrates the treatment of blacks in the United States as inferior and subservient.  What has it done for the Black community?

Allowing religious practices to interfere with the rights and fair treatment of anyone cannot be tolerated.
Religions do not trump the rights of anyone in a free society, regardless of what anyone says or preaches, and continuing to allow symbols and practices that convey inequality between men and women in any way is simply wrongheaded.

"The government of the United States is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion." -- John Adams

We have daughters and have seen first hand the effects of negative treatment they have received at the hands of men.  I also watched my mother beaten to a pulp by my father on numerous occasions and lay in bed as a child while she was abused.  So if agreeing that women are subject to the power and mastery of men is what it takes to be a devout practitioner of any faith according to the diciples claiming such, then I tell them and the god they supposedly represent take a hike.

I attribute being their gods being male because I cannot see how any mother of daughters would agree to permit such treatment of their daughters, unless they are so browbeaten by their religious beliefs that they cannot think like decent beings. I stop short of calling them human beings because those that would permit genital mutilation of their daughters which continues to this day, or those that would permit their daughters to be collected like sheep by polygamy, or beaten by diciples of faith, to be part of the problem as well and so they too can take a hike. 

To get why I take the position I do, watch this video again as a parent and ignore it in the name of faith.

God As Superhero

When I lay in bed dying inside thinking about how my mother was being treated by my father I used to hope and dream for a great hero to come along and defend my mother.  And when in times where things looked so bad that the only respite was refuge in the dreams of superheros saving us, I came to understand how important faith and belief in a super being god was. A lot of people benefit from that vision.

"Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." - Hebrews 11:1

God is portrayed as a father and the people of earth his children. The portrayal never fit the circumstances with the father I knew.  Where was god when my mother was beaten up and she needed protection?

Beyond Helplessness to Doing Something About It

Two ideas spring from the description of god as a father, one is that a father should hope that his children will grow and prosper and do the best they can in all things.  Ideally that hope would not be limited to only achieving what that father has done, but far exceeding it. That idea was discussed in the book Siddhartha by Herman Hesse (full text of book here.)

Siddhartha goes on a journey to attain spiritual enlightenment and on the way meets the spiritual god/father Gautama the Buddha, the Enlightened One. Siddhartha speaks to Buddha and is given the chance to join Buddha's order, but does not. He believes that each person is unique and must seek his or her own enlightenment individually as Buddha did.  Simply adopting another's teachings in their entirety, no matter how great the teacher is, does not fulfill one's destiny. Science is a perfect example of it.  Einstein was brilliant and paved the way for understanding the relationship between energy and matter.  But do you think for one second that Einstein would be happy if no one ever thought they could expand the knowledge he revealed, and add to the understanding he did not have?  Think as a loving parent for one moment and ask yourself how pleased you would be if your child were to take everything you knew and vastly improved on it. 

Another way to think about it is to imagine one day the skies open up, and everyone in the world sees this massive image of a god descending from the heavens, and suddenly the entire world around them is transformed to a thing of indescribable beauty.  All of those that have died previously suddenly rise up and glowing like brilliant holograms are transported to the heavens.  This deity offers you and those around you the chance to follow his instructions completely and you will be absolved from all sin forever.

In such circumstances life gets pretty easy because you are now resolved of all problem solving, including deciding what is good and evil, right or wrong and so on. Men and women trying to determine what is good and evil like a god is supposed to be the cause of their fall from grace and being cast out of the Garden of Eden. If everything in the world was supposedly created by god, then trying to judge any part of it clearly as good or bad is a huge waste of time and a significant act of hubris. It might be better just to figure out how things work, yin and yang.  The other problem with following the god from the sky is that it does absolutely nothing for expanding the teachings of a father god and your own understanding of how things work. 

As a parent of daughters, we afford them the right, the hope and the privilege of being equal in all respects to men, and even greater in one fundamental respect, which is the ability to give birth to and nurture another human being.  We stand up and defend them against any teaching or suggestions that deny view.

The visionary people whose examples were followed in establishing religions certainly did not build up grand institutions and edifices to demonstrate their beliefs.  Those that came after, the religious bureaucrats are responsible for that, and as they demonstrate, do everything their power to protect their "investments and holdings" and of course if they abuse your children, cover it up.  They protect the only view of godliness they understand, which is the rear view mirror approach. 

However, there are thousands of years in the future, and what applied in many respects historically needs new inspiration and insight. If insight into enlightenment in the future cannot be trusted to the offspring of the gods and must be interpreted with guidance from religious bureaucrats mired in dusty books and hypocrisy we are in trouble. 

But at the very least citizens can defend their republic and the people in it to prevent malign religious behavior from injuring the half the population that mothers its children, from abuse by zealots and fanatics who cannot think past rotting parchment and the poor excuse of men that feel empowered by some historical and outdated concept of their superiority.

For insight into the consciousness and spiritual insight attributed to Christ, Buddha, Moses, Richard Maurice Bucke and others describe it as a "cosmic" consciousness. Bucke's book on it is here in its entirety. If the book is old, it does not mean it is out of date any more than bibles and other works are.

Resources

7 Ways You're Hurting Your Daughter's Future